Ever taken a women out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, only to have her then reject you for some jerk who didn’t treat her half as good?

I know I sure as hell have, and I now know why it fails. It’s because when you do these things, you send a clear message: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’ll try to buy your attention and affection instead.”

And despite us believing we’re doing the right thing it usually comes across to women as compensating for insecurity, and a weak attempt at manipulation. That’s right women see it as manipulation. Not good!

Ever taken a women out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, only to have her then reject you for some jerk who didn’t treat her half as good?

I know I sure as hell have, and I now know why it fails. It’s because when you do these things, you send a clear message: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’ll try to buy your attention and affection instead.”

And despite us believing we’re doing the right thing it usually comes across to women as compensating for insecurity, and a weak attempt at manipulation. That’s right women see it as manipulation. Not good!

MISTAKE #4: Trying to "Buy" Her Affection

MISTAKE #4: Trying to "Buy" Her Affection

MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early

MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early

Another self sabotaging mistake we often make is sharing how we feel about them too early. It’s better to keep her guessing, but more on this latter.

You have to remember attractive women get a LOT of attention. They’re being approached by men in one way or another all the time. Often several times a DAY. That’s dozens of times a week, and even HUNDREDS of times a month…

So guess what? She’s usually dated a LOT of men, and if you think you’re doing something original with her you’re not, shes seen it all before. She’s got experience, and she knows exactly what to expect. 

 

And nothing turns her off faster than being told something like: “You know, I really, really like you.” Or even worse “I love you.” After only a few dates.

 

When you do this you immediately join the pile of boring, predictable rejects who fell for her too quickly. You offer no challenge, no excitement, just boring predictability.

 

So don’t do it. Instead lean back, relax. There’s a better way!

Another self sabotaging mistake we often make is sharing how we feel about them too early. It’s better to keep her guessing, but more on this latter.

You have to remember attractive women get a LOT of attention. They’re being approached by men in one way or another all the time. Often several times a DAY. That’s dozens of times a week, and even HUNDREDS of times a month…

So guess what? She’s usually dated a LOT of men, and if you think you’re doing something original with her you’re not, shes seen it all before. She’s got experience, and she knows exactly what to expect. 

 

And nothing turns her off faster than being told something like: “You know, I really, really like you.” Or even worse “I love you.” After only a few dates.

 

When you do this you immediately join the pile of boring, predictable rejects who fell for her too quickly. You offer no challenge, no excitement, just boring predictability.

 

So don’t do it. Instead lean back, relax. There’s a better way!

MISTAKE #6: Not Understanding Attraction

MISTAKE #6: Not Understanding Attraction

In my opinion this is the most important lesson you can ever learn. Attraction is not a choice it is a biological response. Read that last sentence again, and commit it to memory.

If you don’t know how to arouse attraction in a woman you’re dead in the water. And if you do… you have a powerful tool you can use on any woman you desire. It’s that powerful. 

When we see a beautiful woman, we instantly feel sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Do they feel instant sexual attraction based mostly on looks alone? Or is there something else going on?

Well I can tell you right now a women’s attraction is triggered by things other than looks. Great news if like my younger brother you have a face for radio… although he’ll be the first to tell you it’s me with the face for radio.

Ever noticed you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than his looks alone.

In other words “Women don’t like you, they like the way they feel when they’re around you.” And you can learn to give women these intense, addictive, intoxicating feelings at will.

It’s easy and any guy can learn to do it. It’s a double edged sword though. Women can become clingy if you use it to much.

In my opinion this is the most important lesson you can ever learn. Attraction is not a choice it is a biological response. Read that last sentence again, and commit it to memory.

If you don’t know how to arouse attraction in a woman you’re dead in the water. And if you do… you have a powerful tool you can use on any woman you desire. It’s that powerful. 

When we see a beautiful woman, we instantly feel sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Do they feel instant sexual attraction based mostly on looks alone? Or is there something else going on?

Well I can tell you right now a women’s attraction is triggered by things other than looks. Great news if like my younger brother you have a face for radio… although he’ll be the first to tell you it’s me with the face for radio.

Ever noticed you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than his looks alone.

In other words “Women don’t like you, they like the way they feel when they’re around you.” And you can learn to give women these intense, addictive, intoxicating feelings at will.

It’s easy and any guy can learn to do it. It’s a double edged sword though. Women can become clingy if you use it to much.

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