10 Dangerous mistakes men make that ruins their chances with women...

10 Dangerous mistakes men make that ruins their chances with women...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of a "Nice Guy"

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of a "Nice Guy"

Ever noticed how the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to nice guys? I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends who’d always date total jerks, while never showing (you a nice guy) any interest.

Why? It’s simple… Women despite what your mother told you, don’t pick men by how nice we are. They choose the men they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for. And guess what? Being nice doesn’t do that.

Now I realize this doesn’t make logical sense, and it’s hard to accept if you’re the chronic nice guy doing everything your mother told you e.g. Buying her flowers, taking her on wonderful dates, and treating her like she’s some goddess on a pedestal.

Now don’t get me wrong I’m not saying you should go out and treat women badly, although there is some truth to the term ‘treat-em mean and keep-em keen.’ All I’m saying is stop being such a nice guy, it’s only seen as weak, boring, creepy, and anything but attractive!

Ever noticed how the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to nice guys? I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends who’d always date total jerks, while never showing (you a nice guy) any interest.

Why? It’s simple… Women despite what your mother told you, don’t pick men by how nice we are. They choose the men they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for. And guess what? Being nice doesn’t do that.

Now I realize this doesn’t make logical sense, and it’s hard to accept if you’re the chronic nice guy doing everything your mother told you e.g. Buying her flowers, taking her on wonderful dates, and treating her like she’s some goddess on a pedestal.

Now don’t get me wrong I’m not saying you should go out and treat women badly, although there is some truth to the term ‘treat-em mean and keep-em keen.’ All I’m saying is stop being such a nice guy, it’s only seen as weak, boring, creepy, and anything but attractive!

MISTAKE #2: Trying to Convince her To Like You

MISTAKE #2: Trying to Convince her To Like You

What do most guys do when they meet a woman they really like, but she’s not interested? They try to “convince” her differently.

Does this sound familiar? “If I could only get her to see just how much I like her, she will feel the same.” sob, sob… Well, I have news for ya buddy. YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never, ever, ever!

You can’t convince a woman to feel differently about you through logic and reasoning. Actually when it comes to women… just throw logic and reasoning out the window!

Think about it. If she doesn’t “feel it” for you, how do you expect to change that through reasoning with her? Yet we all waste our time attempting it. Don’t try to convince women to like you. She’s either attracted, or she isn’t. End of story!

What do most guys do when they meet a woman they really like, but she’s not interested? They try to “convince” her differently.

Does this sound familiar? “If I could only get her to see just how much I like her, she will feel the same.” sob, sob… Well, I have news for ya buddy. YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never, ever, ever!

You can’t convince a woman to feel differently about you through logic and reasoning. Actually when it comes to women… just throw logic and reasoning out the window!

Think about it. If she doesn’t “feel it” for you, how do you expect to change that through reasoning with her? Yet we all waste our time attempting it. Don’t try to convince women to like you. She’s either attracted, or she isn’t. End of story!

MISTAKE #3: Looking For Her "Approval"

MISTAKE #3: Looking For Her "Approval"

In our desire to please women, which we mistakenly think will get them to like us, we’re forever doing things to get a woman’s approval or permission. HORRIBLE idea!

Women are never attracted to guys who kiss up to them… Now don’t get me wrong once again. I’m not saying you have to treat women badly for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “constantly getting her approval and permission for absolutely everything,” think again. That’s just weak and annoying, it screams desperation. 

If you doubt me then ask any attractive woman if she finds the wimps chasing her around, and constantly wanting her approval annoying…

I actually noticed this for the first time when I was sitting at a table with this incredibly hot blond girl, and at least three other guys. The three other guys were kissing up to her, treating her like she was Queen of the universe.

Saying the usual cringe worthy things like you’re so beautiful etc. I just wanted to puke! What did I do? The complete opposite of course…

You should of heard the uproar from the guys when I told her that I thought she was the most successful sex change I’d ever seen. The look on her face was absolutely priceless and they could not apologize enough for me. The weak wimps.

I followed it up with:“No I’m being serious I lived in Thailand for 3 years, and I know a ladyboy when I see one.” Of course by now I had this huge smirk on my face, and realizing I was only joking she cracked up laughing.

We then began bantering back and forth while one by one the other guys at the table who couldn’t understand what was happening right before their eyes slowly disappeared.

I’ll tell you the rest of the story latter. Long story short I wasn’t looking for her approval. Instead I was indifferent. I wasn’t desperate and most of all I wasn’t sucking up to her every chance I got. Remember nobody likes a suck up.

In our desire to please women, which we mistakenly think will get them to like us, we’re forever doing things to get a woman’s approval or permission. HORRIBLE idea!

Women are never attracted to guys who kiss up to them… Now don’t get me wrong once again. I’m not saying you have to treat women badly for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “constantly getting her approval and permission for absolutely everything,” think again. That’s just weak and annoying, it screams desperation. 

If you doubt me then ask any attractive woman if she finds the wimps chasing her around, and constantly wanting her approval annoying…

I actually noticed this for the first time when I was sitting at a table with this incredibly hot blond girl, and at least three other guys. The three other guys were kissing up to her, treating her like she was Queen of the universe.

Saying the usual cringe worthy things like you’re so beautiful etc. I just wanted to puke! What did I do? The complete opposite of course…

You should of heard the uproar from the guys when I told her that I thought she was the most successful sex change I’d ever seen. The look on her face was absolutely priceless and they could not apologize enough for me. The weak wimps.

I followed it up with:“No I’m being serious I lived in Thailand for 3 years, and I know a ladyboy when I see one.” Of course by now I had this huge smirk on my face, and realizing I was only joking she cracked up laughing.

We then began bantering back and forth while one by one the other guys at the table who couldn’t understand what was happening right before their eyes slowly disappeared.

I’ll tell you the rest of the story latter. Long story short I wasn’t looking for her approval. Instead I was indifferent. I wasn’t desperate and most of all I wasn’t sucking up to her every chance I got. Remember nobody likes a suck up.

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